Are you married to someone
who experiences
Same Sex Attraction or identifies as Gay?
Welcome to
Together we will walk through betrayal, trauma, recovery, and avenues of support.
Every Thursday
11am Eastern
10am Central
9am Mountain
8am Pacific
I never want another woman to feel as alone as I did
Emotional trauma occurs when we feel hurt or experience betrayal. When people experience the emotional upheaval of betrayal trauma, a really common response is to try to fix the situation by trying to fix the other person, taking responsibility for their actions, choices, even thoughts.
While it might feel like making your partner change would solve all of your problems, you can create your own healing!
11 years ago when my husband told me about his addiction and same sex attractions I was shocked, numb, and so afraid. At the time I was pretty new to the internet and was afraid to search, "my husband is attracted to men".
I felt alone! I spent months in my bed avoiding the elephant in my house. I didn't know how to look at my relationships, my feelings, or my marriage. I needed tools and didn't even know what to look for.
Then I found my people; women who taught me, loved me, guided me, inspired me. Women like you and many others! I learned, changed, and figured out what boundaries are and how to set them to create safety for myself.
I have learned in order to heal you need, personal safety, emotional sobriety, and connection to others. God didn't intend us to live and grow in a bubble. We need each other!
Do you need a friend, someone who is a little farther on the path, someone who can hear you because she has been there too? Please reach out to someone! Don't be alone like I was!
My marriage isn't perfect but it is connected, strong, loving, and powerful! We are celebrating 28 years this summer and I am more in love as each year passes.
What's Included?
- Weekly Live Video Call
- Additional Resources Sent
- Connection With Others on a Healing Path
- Message Group to Connect
- Guided Meditations
- Tools for Recovery
- Betrayal Trauma Education
- Tools to create personal safety
- Compassion, Empathy, and Self Worth
Meet Tera
Hi, I'm Coach Tera, Emotional Safety Mentor and Intuitive Life Coach. I help women recover and rediscover their lives after betrayal.
I specializing in healing work with women, couples and families. I am APSATS trained in Multidimensional Partner Trauma and I'm a certified peer facilitator through C-SASI (Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International).
I woke up from a lifelong pattern I wasn’t even aware of…avoiding, numbing and denying my emotions, when after 16 years of marriage my husband disclosed his same-sex attraction, infidelity and addiction struggles.
I began my personal journey of personal growth work and recovery that very day. Since then, my healing has taken me on a roller coaster of learning and growing. My passion has become to share with others the tools I found and created to live life authentically and on purpose.
I absolutely love my job and my clients too! I have created a platform I teach from that simply starts with, when you heal in the four areas of PEMS (physical, emotional, mental and spiritual), you build strength and stability to become whole again.
